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A person came to Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) and said: Who among the people is most deserving my companionship (of a kind treatment from me?) He said: Your mother. He, again, said: Then who (is the next one)? He said: It is your mother (who deserves the best treatment from you). He said: Then who (is the next one)? He (the Holy Prophet) said: It is your mother. He (again) said: Then who? Thereupon he (The Prophet (peace be upon him)) said: It is your father



sudjanamihardja wrote on Oct 23, '07
THE MOTHER

01. When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you.You thanked her by crying all the night.
02. When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.You thanked her by running away when she called.
03. When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love.You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.
04. When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons.You thanked her by coloring the dinning room table.
05. When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays.You thanked her by looping into the nearest pile of mud.
06. When you were 6 years old, she walked you into school.You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING".
07. When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball.You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor window.
08. When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream.You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.
09. When you were 9 years old, she paid for Arabic lessons.You thanked her by never even bothering to practice it.
10. When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day, from soccer to gymnastic to one birthday party after another.You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.
11. When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies.You thanked her by asking to sit in the different row.
12. When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain TV shows.You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.
13. When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming.You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.
14. When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp.You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.
15. When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug.You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.
16. When you were 16, she taught you how to drive her car.You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.
17. When you were 17, she was expecting an important call.You thanked her by being on the phone all night.
18. When you were 18, she cried at your school graduation.You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.
19. When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus, carried your bags.You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of you friends.
20. When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone.You thanked her by saying "It's none of you business".

21. When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future.You thanked her by saying "I don't want to be like you".
22. When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation.You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.
23. When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment.You thanked her by telling your friend it was ugly.
24. When you were 24, she met your fiancé and asked about your plans for the future.You thanked her by glaring and growling, "Muuhh-ther, please!"
25. When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told how deeply she loved you.You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

26. When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby.You thanked by telling her, "Things are different now."
27. When you were 40, she called to remind you of a relative's birthday.You thanked her by saying you were "really busy right now."
28. When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her.You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.
29. And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did, came crashing down like thunder on your heart.

IF SHE' S STILL AROUND, NEVER FORGET TO LOVE HER MORE THAN EVER. AND IF SHE' S NOT, REMEMBER HER UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.
sweetshenu wrote on Oct 23, '07
From Surah al-Rahman are the glorious words of our Creator: "Then which of the favors of your Lord will your deny?"

Yet how often we deny the greatest of favors that the Bestower has granted us. This favor, in the form of a woman......

A woman who carried us within her for almost a whole year of her short life in this world, bearing every hardship and discomfort to protect and nurture our frail being as the Fashioner gently prepared us to come into this worldly realm....

A woman who braved death's door, embracing pain unimaginable to even the most stalwart of warriors, that our tiny form may chance to take its first breath, open its eyes to the light of a new home, and feel her warm, soft caress, as she forgets all that she went through, to make comfortable our awakening into a new world....

A woman who had forsaken rest, slumber, and dreams for far too many nights; to rise instead, and answer the pitiful wail of a helpless creature that always new she would be there to answer its plaintive cry, even as the whole world slumbered on into the dead of the night......

A woman who bore weakness to give forth from her being, a pure and heavenly nectar to nourish our growing bodies and our thirsty souls with sustenance to define our humanity ever onward......

A woman who watered and pruned our character with all the patience and care of a master gardener turning a wild shrub into a beautiful tree.......

A woman who was always there for us, no matter how many backs were turned to us, no matter how many doors closed in our face, to give us a shoulder to cry on, an ear to heed our complaint, a comforting bosom to embrace when there was no other.......

A woman who, even after all of our blunders, all of our impudence, all of our ungrateful gestures and insolent remarks, will not hesitate to say I forgive you when no one else in the world will....

A woman who we call Mother.

If we only knew her lofty station in the sight of He whose mercy is endless, a single portion of which He showered upon the world and it manifested itself as the undying compassion of the mother to her child.

"THEN WHICH OF THE FAVORS OF YOUR LORD DO YOU DENY?"

To deny is to show ingratitude. To show ingratitude is to lose one's blessings......like sand flowing through one's fingers.

To show ingratitude to the all Merciful is to show ingratitude to the means He creates out of His endless mercy. WHAT OF THE MEANS WHICH BROUGHT US INTO THE WORLD?

If one's mother is alive, then cry out of thankfulness to Allah, go to her, sit at her feet, kiss her on the forehead, look her in the eyes and tell her how blessed you are for someone like her......

Tell her how much you love her.....

And never forget the immortal words of our beloved Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace):



There is no velvet so soft as a mother's lap, no rose as lovely as her smile, no path so flowery as that imprinted with her footsteps.

The Paradise is under mothers' feet



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